Moral of the story, my son ended up loving the coal and even playing with it. He is a very grateful sweet little boy. He is not spoiled WHATSOEVER, Christmas and his birthday are the only 2 days out of the year we actually go all out. He gets small rewards for good choices and immediate consequences for poor choices. He is very smart and knows right from wrong good and bad. Will I expect my 4 year old to be 100% absolutely not. But at the end of the day he knows exactly what will and will not fl