“Can’t you just have an amicable divorce?” That advice only works when both people want resolution. Amicable requires honesty. Disclosure. Co-operation. Good faith. It doesn’t work when someone is: Delaying disclosure. Hiding assets. Closing businesses. Quitting jobs to look “poor.” Sending constant legal letters. Making false accusations. Calling you an unfit parent. Refusing child support. Engaging in post-separation abuse. Some divorces aren’t “high conflict.” They’re control. And you don’t f