How A Narcissist Will Use A Therapist For Triangulation 📣 When a narcissist uses a therapist to further their own agenda, this is called triangulation, and it’s more common than you might think in relationships with a narcissist. It can happen if you have couples therapy and if they go to private therapy “pretending” to want to be a better partner! The narcissist cleverly uses the therapist to make you feel unheard and alone and will come back saying they’ve said how it’s YOUR fault I remember